Hi
(Sorry this post has been one year here unposted cause I was so busy and only happened to figure out my password. Enjoy reading)
It's a very long time since then.
My life has been up and down.
Juggling my life with my work as a houseman, and latest with the love of my life.
I think it s not too much if I finally say I've found the love of my life.
After several relationships, ups and downs, starting and breaking up,
I finally found my man.
He is a tall slim fair man with a pair of big eyes, having protruding jawlines, long neck and obvious adam apple.
He is totally different from my types before, which is usually not really tall and sometimes not really fair.
He was my colleague during my posting at medical and surgery department.
We barely talked during medical posting. When we're in surgery department working at periphery wards, ICU and ED, then only we become close.
At first, he looks a bit firm and stern and not really a type of socializing person, often seen alone.
Again not my usual type, my type is usually a soft guy, loves to socialize.
Eventually when we saw a lot of cases together, I realize he's a fun guy, make silly jokes, responsible and reliable colleague.
The first time I saw him when I was in corridor clerking case for the first time.
I was there alone so clueless what to do, I threw my sight around me to see if there's someone I can ask for help. At the end of the corridor, I saw a tall guy with white coat and mask on was also stealing a look at me.
'This guy may know what to do'
And of course he knew, when I asked him, he seemed knowing what I didn't know, and taught me everything.
At some point while he was teaching, I glanced at him. This man is good looking. With his pair of big downward slanting eyes.
'What if he's my soulmate...'
'No la he surely has girlfriend. Guy like this always taken'
Then the rest was history.
We moved to next department; surgical.
'Jom teman aku pegi SOPD'
'Buat apa?'
'OT list'
'Jom'
'Weh lapaq'
'Jom cafe'
'Weh redzone ada case. Jom'
'Jom redzone'
He was always my 'jom' friend.
He taught me a lot of things.
Some sweet moments when we're still friends.
There was a bleeding patient sent to scope room from redzone for ogds stat.
Hb was about 5. We need to resus him fast. I pumped blood to volume up the patient. And there was him holding that restless patient with left hand while helped me turning the 3-way with his right hand. Enjoyed the moment for a while before Dr Nabil asked him to change his bloody apron.
We always spent time at surgical discharge lounge together, only both of us. Sometimes in light sometimes in dark.
At the end of July 2019, we confessed to each other.
And get ourselves engaged at the end of January 2020, almost two months engaged now.
Before I be with him, I can see he's a preserve man. He only allows certain people in his life. Only enjoy company of certain people mostly boys. And often seen alone as I said.
When I started to get close to him, I began with opening up my stories I don't usually tell people, my painful memories, and he listened to me attentively. I checked his phone beforehand, I know thats not right, but I need to do what I have to. There's no frequent chats, no frequent calls from same person, so my first thought was he's gay haha
Cause with that package living in Malay neighbourhood, it s almost impossible to be single.
But then I learn he's straight and also single.
Being with him, is amazing as a whole. He's head to toe an honest person, communicates when he feels unpleasant, a loving and caring boyfriend, willing to sacrifice everything for both of us.
We've gone out for dates for only God knows how many times already, and he was the one who picked me up and sent me home everytime. God bless him for that.
When I started to get close to him, I began with opening up my stories I don't usually tell people, my painful memories, and he listened to me attentively. I checked his phone beforehand, I know thats not right, but I need to do what I have to. There's no frequent chats, no frequent calls from same person, so my first thought was he's gay haha
Cause with that package living in Malay neighbourhood, it s almost impossible to be single.
But then I learn he's straight and also single.
Being with him, is amazing as a whole. He's head to toe an honest person, communicates when he feels unpleasant, a loving and caring boyfriend, willing to sacrifice everything for both of us.
We've gone out for dates for only God knows how many times already, and he was the one who picked me up and sent me home everytime. God bless him for that.
Here's photo of us getting engaged.
Here's my engagement ring. We actually already surveyed some jewellery store for my engagement ring. Nothing seems suitable. But one day when we went to Queensbay Mall (our favourite mall to spend time), we went to Wah Chan store. And there it is....my engagement ring. White gold checked. Diamond checked. Simple not so huge checked. Price reasonable checked. Actually he wanted to buy me another ring (psst actually more expensive then this one) I turned it down cause I wanted this baby here.
My engagement dais from Zura Primadona. Actually my friend suggested this bridal boutique to me.
Basically that s how we started and my small engagement ceremony.
Till we meet again bye.
