Hi hello.
That day I ve already posted about my bestfriend turned boyfriend turned fiance. It was a very long story of multiple relationships before I finally found this man I love.
To summarize my first boyfriend when I was in school, broke up with me when I was in Egypt doing medical degree.
Then bits of liking some boys here and there before I was in platonic relationship with a senior which also studied abroad. Then when I realized I had no future with him because he was really far away and no real date and whatnot, I started to be closed with one of batchmate. Then I ended up my platonic relationship. And started new relationship with this batchmate. This time it was a real relationship cause we're near to each other and real dates were happening. We're together for like 4years, 3years plus short distance and several months ldr. I was happy because I had companion but when we're in ldr, I learnt that I was not really happy but I chose to ignore the red flags. He looked like he was taking care of me but beneath that it s just a pure inferiority complex, overprotective, selfish and abusive act. But I didnt realize because I thought that's how men will be when they're in love. I was wrong and wronged in so many ways. Finally I've decided to end the relationship.
Then I found this man who I thought I shouldnt have met. We met in PTM an induction program before we started housemanship. I really thought he was my man, as he brought different air in my love story. We went for hiking for one whole night together with his younger brother. Moments happened here and there. And we finally decided we should date. A month later, I figured out an unknown girl tried to request to be a follower on my Instagram but I ignored cause I didn't know her. Actually I did look at her Instagram profile to see if we had mutuals. But nothing. Mainly posted her photos alone with captions she's befriended someone which may be just anyone. Then we continued our relationship. One fine night, I scrolling through his instagram and by instinct I felt like scrolling the girl's instagram and there it was....their photo together. I was like Whutt it wasn't there the last time I checked this girl's account. The next day I actually confronted this girl and introduced myself as his girlfriend. And guess what she introduced herself as his girlfriend too. I was like 'this cunt....' She appeared very calm as if she already knew who was me, but still wanted to do extra efforts (according to her) and I didn't know when was the timeline they started relationship cause as to me, when I was in relationship with him, she was still a friend to him. And to conclude, as much as I hate him, I hate her even more. But that was history.
Thanks to you guys cause finally I've found this man love of my life. Like I said in my previous post, the very first time we encountered I already fell for his charms, but I immediately rushed back to reality. He must be taken.
Then yada yada, July 31st 2019 we confessed to each other. I initiated that by the way. I shall remember till forever 'Like you more than a friend'. Then we went out for dates like so frequent almost every week. He'll just find time and space for us to spend time together. We planned our off day as well whenever possible. He always fetches me home from work. He's not short tempered, quite funny, romantic, kind soul plus tall and handsome. I've never thought my soulmate will be someone like this. I set my bar way too low before lol
Story cut short, after a flawless period of lovey dovey, we tied an eternal knot on August 16th 2020. We now husband and wife.
Now we're approaching 11months of happy and wonderful marriage.
He's now Forensic medical officer whereas I have to be Covid medical officer for time being.
As a husband, he completes my life. He drives me to work, helps me with house chores (washing dishes, laundry etc etc) My only job is to cook. And he also cleans up everything after I cook. The best thing is that he never complains. Even once. Idk maybe this is our honeymoon phase. Lets hope he ll be like this forever.
Next month will be our first anniversary. It will be way more fun if we can cross boundaries sobss, we can go on vacation.
Till then. Goodbye.
