Initially...I do think I'm bout juz to type only a new post for tonite...but i dunno wth is going on, i am excessively hardworkin to do another one...hehe~
N the new topic is all about life as a single...
Many people who have been clashed b4 dun have any interest to share even a lil bit bout their love story... It might be too hurt to be remembered n recalled...or they might be shy to share it...or they wanna to forget it at all...
And I, as a person who are used being in love, may agree bout the first n second view...but i dun prefer the last... Do u know that love story is too magnificent to be forget..? I dun wanna forget mine... Even it's so hurtin...but at least u have an experience being loved n loving person...hehe..mine began at my age 15 y/o..so young isnt it?hehe...n my ex is a year older than me...actually, i've been stalkin for him since i was in form one...it sounds like in malay idiom..'bgai pungguk rndukan bulan' rite? haha...i dunno which one of the english idiom gives meaning like that...but i do think it's normal for us...n it's absolutely a big lucky to have the person that we love who mutually love us too...and sometimes, it happens...n we were officially being a couple for bout 4 years...4 YEARS....yeah,i really meant that...a quite long time...but lastly, we have broken up...maybe we weren't meant for each other..huhu...n i admitted it that all those things happened because of me...my fault...maybe i'm too young n not matured yet to be in love n to be a girlfriend...hoho~ sincerely from the bottom of my heart...I'M NOT MATURED YET TO BE A GIRLFRIEND...he is a good boyfie i think...too nice to stand with my bad habits..huhu...but it was ended up...on November 14, 2011...(if i'm not mistaken)~~
Ok...forget bout that...
I'm gonna tell u how do I undergo my single life...It's definitely not an easy one at the first..n i guess that everybody have known bout that...
It feels like suckss...huhuhu...no morning wishes...no nyte wishes...no more 'i love u'...no more the sentence like...'where did u go?i've been waiting for u for bout 2 hours n only now u r on9...' huhu...
*serious story... I felt so lonely at that particular time...i wanna name that time as...'frustrating phase'..huhu...At that specifically 'frustrating phase' I couldnt even smile or laughin..huhu...ok..it sounds over~hoho...i could laugh but not really in happy mode..huhu...
So,accordin to my experience....what do we have to do to overcome this frustrating period??
the most favourable answer i think is....find the NEW one...haha...(ok..nope...i'm jokin) =.=
juz go back to the path that you have left it before...i mean...always be wif ur friends..if they know that u r juz clashed..i think they would have cheered u up...seriously...since u have ur boyfie before, i'm sure that ur time wif ur besties is quite distrupted...for me who had never go out for a date...i dun think it's the prob...so i always have time wif my friends...juz hang out wif them...if they cannot help u much, maybe a lil do worth it...n for those who live wif their parents, try to have the nice moment wif ur parents...siblings...Maybe this is the time to strengthen the family bond that was slightly distrupted too before...Try to have a talk wif ur Mom...i'm sure it will work out...n it doesnt a matter if ur Mom didnt even know bout ur frustratin period....coz Mom is the only person that can calm us in how much bad time we have...(n now i miss my Mom badly....T.T)
N the most important...be more interacting wif our Creator..Allah the Almighty...maybe these all things happened for reason. He asked us to give more our attention to Him...n be a better 'abdu...
DONT BE SAD...LA TAHZAN....Allah have promised us that....A good man for a good woman..n vice versa...so kindly do believe with HIM....n be patient...coz He wants to create another better love story for us...hee...
